Ever thought that your handshake says a lot? Handshaking is commonly done upon meeting, greeting, parting, offering congratulations, or completing an agreement. Its purpose is to convey trust, balance, and equality. It is thought that handshaking was originally a way to prove you had no weapons in your hand when meeting someone new!
This morning I came across an article about etiquette and rules for meeting and greeting. This reminded me about a course I did some years ago, whereby we discussed business etiquette, which was really interesting.
Back to this article, here’s a summary of what the various handshakes mean:
- The Fail-Safe
Connect the web between your index finger and thumb firmly with the other person’s and pump two or three times. This is confident and always appropriate.
- The Rubber Glove
While shaking hands, cover the other person’s hand with your left hand. A favorite of politicians and clergy, this should be used only with someone you know well.
- The Queen’s Handshake
Offering just your fingertips, rather than your palm, indicates a sense of superiority.
- The Dead Fish
A limp handshake conveys weakness and a lack of self-confidence.
- The Terminator
Turning the grip so your hand is on top is a sign of aggression.
Some tips to an effective meet ‘n greet:
- Stand up
- Step or lean forward
- Make eye contact
- Have a pleasant or animated face
- Shake hands
- Greet the other person and repeat his or her name
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I always try to give a “fail safe” handshake
I think that’s the best one to be on the safe side:)